69 - It's not just a sexual position any more!

Why do we do what we do? Why do my husband and I like me fucking other men?

Because we don't want to live in the rut everyone else falls into. We do it because it's more fun to have a fun life together rather than just live together. We enjoy the excitement. Part of the excitement is trying new ideas and variations together.

Here's a list of fun ideas that fit into what we enjoy.

I won't lie. I didn't sit down and think all 69 of these up. I found them online and thought a lot of them were creative. They might give you an idea to work with. I liked some. If your husband is like mine I bet he would love some, too!).

1. Regularly make comments to your husband about other men you find attractive and tell him what it is about them that attracts you.

2. During sex, remind your husband that you prefer larger dicks and he doesn't measure up (trust me, he'll like it).

3. Tell your husband about things your lover/s do better sexually.

4. Tell your husband whenever you have thoughts of sex with someone else.

5. Have your husband watch as you prepare yourself to go out looking for other men, or go on a date.

6. Shave your pussy and tell your husband it's because another man asked you to.

7. Have your husband bathe you, shave your legs and pussy, or pick out clothes, jewelry and perfume to get you ready for your dates.

8. Get a discreet (or temporary) sexually suggestive tattoo.

9. Get a body piercing, cut or color your hair, or do something else that alters your body. Tell your husband you did it for your lover, or to attract a lover.

10. Buy a Hotwife ankle bracelet, and wear it any time you go out alone. Make your husband put it on your ankle for you, reminding him that it tells men you're available.

11. Start wearing more sexy, revealing clothing, hose and high heels in public. Add some super short skirts, see-through blouses and new lingerie to your wardrobe. Switch to heavier, sluttier makeup and tell your husband you're doing it all to attract men.

12. Stop wearing underwear when you go out and make sure your husband knows.

13. Flirt more! Flirt when you're out alone. But also openly flirt with other men in front of your husband, even at bars and clubs.

14. Put an ad on an adult website, under Single Female seeking Single Men. Send the link to your husband.

15. Have your husband go down on you while you watch cheating wife or Hotwife porn on the TV or your computer. Tell him you wish you were the woman in the movie.

16. Have your husband go out and get a hotel room for you and your lover to use, and then bring you the key before your date.

17. Have your husband go out with you and make him watch from across the room as you flirt and try to pick up a man. Let the men know you're available, and give out your phone number. Leave with someone if you can (and if you've agreed that's okay).

18. Make your husband drive you and your lover around while you have sex in the back seat.

19. Have your husband drive you to a motel to meet a lover, and then return to pick you up later.

20. Make your husband help find men for you, or make all the arrangements for a date so you just have to show up and get laid.

21. Have your husband accompany you to a bar to meet other men, and have him wait inside while you and another man go to your car in the parking lot for a "get acquainted" blowjob.

22. Let your husband watch you have sex (be sure to enjoy the sex VERY much!)

23. Deny your husband the privilege of watching at other times. Never let him know which it will be.

24. Travel out of town for weekend trip with another man.

25. Call your husband on the phone during sex with another man and let him listen in.

26. Fuck another man in your marital bed.

27. Fuck another man while your husband is at work or out of town, then let him know.

28. Fuck another man while your husband is in the next room, listening.

29. Fuck another man, film it and let your husband watch it later.

30. When your husband watches you have sex, openly express how good it feels and how much better your lover is.

31. Perform a sex act with another man that you don't do often with your husband. Then tell your husband what you did.

32. Find another Hotwife and start going out together to find men.

33. Fuck a guy your husband hates and tell him you did it. 

34. Fuck one of your husband's friends.

35. Fuck a black man.

36. Fuck a much younger man.

37. Fuck someone rich and powerful.

38. Fuck an older man, or authority figure like a police officer.

39. Tease your husband by reminding him that you could get pregnant by your lover.

40. Go to an XXX adult video booth with your husband and let him watch you suck a cock through a glory hole.

41. Go to an adult theater with your husband and a lover.

42. Accompany a lover to a local swingers club as a couple.

43. Join your lover and a friend of his in a threesome (male or female).

44. Let your lover bend you over his knee and spank you, with your husband watching.

45. Let your lover tie you up in bed and use you, with your husband watching

46. Have your husband pick out and pay for lingerie or a hot dress you will wear for your lover.

47. When your lovers call, take the call in another room and close the door for privacy.

48. Have phone sex with a lover, and have your husband watch as you masturbate and talk on the phone.

49. Deny your husband sex for several days before you go out on a date.

50. Walk around your house naked before a date, but do not allow your husband to have sex with you.

51. Before a date give your husband a partial BJ but do not let him cum.

52. After a date masturbate in front of your husband while telling him all the details.

53. Regularly wear any jewelry or clothes given to you by your lovers.

54. Have your lover's call you at home and ask for you when your husband answers.

55. Call your lovers in front of your husband and let your husband listen to your call while you flirt. Say things such as "You know you own it, baby" or "I'll do anything you want".

56. Take off your wedding rings and hand them to your husband before leaving for a date, or 
before going into the bedroom with a lover.

57. Have your husband secretly lie under the bed or in a closet while you fuck a lover.

58. Have your husband perform oral on you after you have sex with someone else (cleaning up a creampie).

59. Compliment your lovers openly during sex, and be loud and vocal when you cum, making sure your husband overhears everything, even if he's in another room.

60. Become known and be seen as a "couple" in public with a regular lover.

61. Spend an entire night with a lover.

62. Have your husband briefly perform oral sex on you as you prepare for a date, or immediately prior to departing, and make him promise to do it again the moment you return.

63. See two different lovers on successive nights, or even on the same day.

64. Let your lover bring over a friend to "share" you.

65. Participate in group sex with several men.

66. Participate in a swingers orgy.

67. Have sex with an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband and let your husband know you enjoyed it.

68. Tell one of your best girlfriends that you fuck other men and your husband is a cuckold, then tell your husband that you told her everything (watch him freak out!).

69. When you're having sex with a lover call your husband, then leave the phone turned on so he can listen in. 

(Edited to add more hot tips LOL)

70. Take on the challenge of NEVER paying for drinks when you go alone to a bar, and try to get men to buy all your drinks. This is a great confidence builder - men are such suckers LOL. (Hint - this will eventually lead to you getting laid)

71. Constantly remind your husband that he is smallish/inadequate in bed (even if he's not!)

72. Make your husband lick your clit while another man is fucking you.

73. Give a blowjob to another man while kneeling underneath a table at a bar or restaurant. 

74. Send texts, pics and vids to your husband when you're with a lover and having sex.

75. Tell your husband sexual details about your previous lovers.

76. Any time you go out alone deliberately stay out later than your husband expects. Keep him wondering.

For those of you into more advanced (and intense!) ideas from an experienced Bull, click here: How to make a cuckold squirm