Married and FREE baby!

That's how I feel today.

Married and FREE!

How many times do you hear those two words together?

For most people the answer is never. That's sad, don't you think? Don't you think it's sad that people associate marriage with a lack of freedom?

Is that the way it should be?
Is that the way it was meant to be?
Is that the way it is for you?

Because that's not the way it is for me. At least not now. Not in this marriage and not these days.

I am free. I love my freedom. I cherish it and I can't imagine living without it. My freedom was given to me as a gift by the man I love more than anything in the world. I love him even more because of the freedom he gives me.

Freedom has its benefits, and I savor every single one of them. But I also make sure that the man who gave me this freedom savors his share of the benefits. After all, without him I wouldn't have this freedom. I would be less. My life would be less.

I feel so free today. I think I'll go out tonight. I'm free to do that. It's so nice.

Maybe I'll get lucky. Luckier I mean. I'm already lucky, because I'm free.