And I love that first kiss. It tells so much. I can tell if I'm going to go all the way with someone the first time we kiss.
I feel a good kiss all the way down to my toes, and the feeling definitely passes through my crotch on the way down. Just like a romance novel, my knees do get weak when I get a great kiss. I feel butterflies and turn to jelly when a man knows how to kiss me.
When my husband and I had our first threesomes with another guy I was hesitant to kiss the other guy. I think I was nervous about kissing someone in front of my husband. I don't know why. After all if I was going to fuck them why wouldn't I be okay kissing them?
When I'm with someone else it's for the sex. I'm not looking for an emotional connection. Maybe I didn't want my husband to think I was emotionally attached to someone, so I didn't kiss them at first.
That's different now. I know now that my husband is okay with me kissing other men, whether I'm in front of him or alone with them. He knows I like to kiss and he knows it's important to me. I don't hesitate to kiss now. In fact I need it. I prefer to have sex with someone who I like to kiss, and I like to kiss someone when I'm having sex.
Kissing gives me a more intimate connection that makes the sex (and the orgasms) better. Kissing has never brought out any emotional feelings that would be any deeper than the feelings I may already have for someone. Feelings? Yes. To be sure, I do have 'feelings' for the men I'm with. I couldn't have sex with them if I didn't care for them at some level. But kissing doesn't change that or make my feelings any deeper for them.
Kissing just makes me feel more connected. It makes me feel like giving more of myself. It makes me wet and it helps me cum and it makes me feel wanted afterward.
So guys, if you want to get in our pants then kiss us. Kiss us when you greet us. Kiss us deep and wet with passion. Use your lips to tell us how badly you want us. Kiss us to tease us and kiss us when you make love to us. Kiss us as you cum in us and hold and kiss us afterward.
Kissing can't be overrated, not if you want to be with me.